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Lesson 31 Stop refusing good proposals lest there be mischief on earth:

and girls are at the peak of their beauty and they get the best proposals. Parents must accept the first good proposal from a guy with whose religion and character they are pleased with. According to the command of the Prophet, peace be upon him because the quality and frequency of proposals quickly dwindles with time.

Many parents do not marry their daughters because of the fear of becoming lonely. This is being unfair to the daughters. Sometimes a relative or an uncle or an aunt who has a daughter of the same age see negative things about the guy proposing to the girl. Because these people will feel a loss in status when this girl gets married.

This is one of the occasions where the parents must take a stand for their daughter and do the right thing. See the proposal for its merits, not for their desires of those who stand to gain nothing from this marriage.

Lesson 32 Find the best for your sperm:

The prophet pbuh said meaning find the best prospect for sperm.

Marry the one who is of kufw to you and do nikah with them. The Prophet peace be upon him had 11 wives will all be pleased with them. Six of them were from the Prophet’s own tribe. The Prophet. Peace be upon him. Had four daughters and he peace be upon him. Married all of them within his own tribe.

And he peace be upon him. Married Zainab and Fatima to her first cousins and he peace people upon he married Umm Kulthum and Ruqayyah to ‘Uthman Ibn Affan, and Zainab to Abu Al As Ibn Al Rabi’, her first cousin and Fatima to Ali Ibn Abi Talib. Also her first cousin may Allah be pleased with them all.

This shows marrying within your own tribe is preferred and marrying your cousins is preferred.

Lesson 33. Marry a muslim girl with a righteous father:

As soon as a muslim gets the wealth shytan uses one of his slaves to try and honey trap him like shytan honeytrapped Sulaiman not so magnificent using Roxelana. It seems to me that he wanted to fit in with the European Kings and he sought honor in something other than Islam and Allah humiliated him at the Siege of Vienna. over the years the Ottoman Empire became more French and less Islamic.

So much so that Mahmud, the second in 1826, had the most feared and the elite military corps in all of Europe, the Janissary Corps executed by his French style troops. This is how one woman, Roxelana, turned the strong Islamic Ottoman man into a semi French sick man of Europe. And today the French style Dolmabahce Palace in Istanbul testifies to this history.

Marry, a muslim woman whose father is a known Muslim, preferably from your own tribe, because she will root for you, because your growth will bring glory to her family. Just like it seems, Roxelana brought glory to her family

Lesson 34, she was walking modestly:

when Musa pbuh was done pulling water for the daughters of Shauaib.

pbuh, He made the following supplication to Allah mentioned in the Quran. My Lord, I am in need of whatever good you send my way. Allah answered his supplication. This is mentioned in the Quran meaning one of them came up to him walking with shyness. She said, Our father calls you so he may reward you for what you have watered for us.

And then Shu’aib pbuh offered Musa pbuh to work for him and to marry one of his daughters to him. So let me ask you this question. As a muslim man, do you want to marry a girl who walks modestly or immodestly?

Lesson 35 to get a beautiful woman Offer your best wealth in Allah’s name:

At the time of Prophet Adam pbuh, kids were born as twins. One boy and one girl. The girl from one pregnancy was married to the guy from the other. Habeel’s sister was not very good looking, whereas Qabeel‘s sister was very good looking. Qabeel couldn’t stand the fact that his sister be wed to Habeel and insisted she should be married to him instead. To settle the dispute, Adam pbuh told them both to prepare a sacrifice in Allah’s name.

At that time, the sign of acceptance of sacrifice was that a fire would come from the sky and consume it. Habil was a herdsman and he sacrificed the best sheep he could find. Qabil was a farmer, and he offered the least useful grain Habeel’s sacrifice got accepted when it comes to giving in the way of Allah never shy away from giving the best

You will not reach the highest level of good deeds unless you spend in a laws way the thing you love and you don’t spend in his way from a thing that law knows it. We make a law to forgive us and to allow us to give the best in charity and his way and save us from jealous people.

Lesson 30. Marry a religious woman and you will prosper:

The Prophet. Peace be upon him. said meaning. All of this world is a fleeting provision and there is no better provision in this world than a good woman. When a man marries a righteous woman, when he leaves the house, he knows she will protect her and the house.

This gives him peace and his work becomes easy for him. And by the grace of Allah, he increases in wealth. If the man marries an irreligious woman, the effect will not be the same. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said meaning four things that are a part of happiness. A good wife, a big spacious house, a comfortable mount.

And a good neighbor. O our Lord give us for us from our spouses and children. Coolness of our eyes. And make us the leaders of the righteous. Ameen.

Lesson 29. You must marry as soon as possible:

Your status in society is determined by how many kids you have.

If you are unmarried for long, you will have kids late. And human maturity also depends on raising kids. A person who raises kids becomes a better away way, way, way better person. This is why married people are more trusted in society. They get jobs easier. They get business easier. But the biggest reason to marry is the command of the prophets pbuh

The Prophet, peace be upon him, said meaning indeed. This world is a provision, and there is nothing in this world provision better than a righteous woman. This means the unmarried righteous women are a form of rizq for the men they marry. And righteous men are rizq for women they marry. So if you are able to marry and you do not marry, it’s like withholding a resource from its recipient, like a grain or fruit, and refusing to sell it or even give it to the people, letting it spoil in the process.

Lesson 28 Remember Allah before you sleep to get good dreams:

People get bad dreams because there are pictures in the house or dogs, although dogs are allowed outside the structure of your house. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said angels do not enter a house for dogs or pictures. As for the currency, notes the Prophet peace, people on him said meaning.

Indeed, Allah has forgiven for my nation their mistakes and what they do out of forgetfulness and what they do under duress. The Prophet, peace be upon him, used to keep his hands together and blow over them. After reciting Surah Al-Ikhlas and Surah Al-Falaq and Surah Al-Nas. Then rubbed the hands over whatever part of his body he was able to do, starting with his head face in the front of the body.

He used to do this three times and recite Ayatul Kursi because the prophet peace be upon him affirmed when someone recites Ayatul Kursi. An angel is appointed to protect them. we beg Allah to Forgive us and to give us good dreams. Ameen.

Lesson 27 Allah loves a strong believer:

and mental strength also comes from pure food, which doesn’t weaken their mind. Especially Omega threes and vitamin B12 foods. Omega three is the thing your brain is made of. If you do not have enough omega threes, your brain will become weak and hence your will may become weak.

If you consume enough omega threes, your brain will become strong and your will, will become strong. Same goes for vitamin B12 and from eating things rich in minerals like sodium, potassium, selenium, zinc, magnesium and lithium. This is why you will see these minerals are given as supplements for people who have anxiety or stress and will seek refuge in Allah from all anxiety and stress.

Physical strength comes from best food, meat, dairy and probiotics, and it comes from good sleep and functional exercises.