The prophet pbuh had seven children. Qasim Zainab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kulthum, Fatima Abdullah and Ibrahim and every Muslim aspires to follow Sunnah, feminists, modernists, sciencelims, and logicslims will give you a 100 reasons not to have children. Do they know more than Allah And his messenger?
The more Muslims we have, the more people pray fast. Give Zika and go for hujj and Umrah and Allah ‘Azzawajal mentions children with wealth in the Quran. “Meaning: if you seek Allah’s forgiveness He will give you wealth and children” How many kids do you as a muslim, aspire to have to learn more, Read Chapter 31 of the 40 Muslim Maxims.
This is why people love Mufti Menk. I’m asking the parents to be more understanding and to let things happen. You know, I have I’m asking the kids to be more brave, letting their kids marry children. I have ideals for them. But trust me and I have proven myself. If one of them would come to me and tell me I’m interested in marrying so-and-so.
I’m interested in two things. Deen and Akhlaq, if you have it, and you’re interested. And both parties are interested. I am only a facilitator. Companionship is one of the biggest human desires. It is the first human desire mentioned in the Quran the meaning is Allah has made desires towards the women beautified for people.
And the longer people delay the correct fulfillment of these desires, they do not progress in life. And when you get married, Insha’Allah have as many children as humanly possible because the Prophet peace be upon him, said the meaning is have more children. I will be proud of your numbers on the day of judgment. And this is why young people love Mufti Menk because because he is not a marriage block.
Here he comes. He gives a girl flowers. That’s okay. He’s wearing a blazer.
And look at him bow. In Islam, we bow to no one but Allah. And look at him. Dress up like a Western person. So he needs to find out his core identity and look at his haircut. It’s a fade cut. Fade cuts are haram in Islam, in a hadith we know qaz’ having one part of the head shaved or very faded and the other part heavy.
It is haram, the prophet. Peace be upon him. Forbade us from this. We ask Allah to bless his marriage and we ask Allah of give the wife tawfeeq not to show herself without proper hijab to the people and to her sisters.
How are you going to make sure you don’t end up marrying either of these women?
Look at her mother. Look at your future mother in law. And if you cannot look at her, look at her father. Why? Because if the man is not happy with his life, his life is probably one of these five types. And the easiest way to see if a man is happy with his life and his life is to see how he walks.
If he walks with a slouch and shows signs of low self-esteem, he probably has a wife who is one of these five types.