Author: Usman Gondal

a famous Catholic preacher, un-reluctantly admitting Islam is better. So Islam, when it comes to a region, does bring a certain societal stability. I think Muslims in 2025, when we were talking earlier about Christians need to think about politics and culture and society theologically. I think Islam in 2025 does do that much more than the average Christian does.

And so I think, you know, when Muslims come to a region, the people might see a certain lift in culture. We may look at that and be like, I don’t want that.

Wait till the end to know who sponsored this. You will be surprised

It was the government of UAE and some people who criticize these Arab countries. They live in the Western countries. And every time they fill up their car with gas, they’re paying taxes to, let’s say, Trump. Every time they buy something, they’re paying taxes to Trump. Every time they consume any service, they’re paying taxes to, let’s say Trump. And then some of them who don’t understand basic economics tell Muslims not to invest in the Muslim lands. This is very unfair.

and girls are at the peak of their beauty and they get the best proposals. Parents must accept the first good proposal from a guy with whose religion and character they are pleased with. According to the command of the Prophet, peace be upon him because the quality and frequency of proposals quickly dwindles with time.

Many parents do not marry their daughters because of the fear of becoming lonely. This is being unfair to the daughters. Sometimes a relative or an uncle or an aunt who has a daughter of the same age see negative things about the guy proposing to the girl. Because these people will feel a loss in status when this girl gets married.

This is one of the occasions where the parents must take a stand for their daughter and do the right thing. See the proposal for its merits, not for their desires of those who stand to gain nothing from this marriage.

The prophet pbuh said meaning find the best prospect for sperm.

Marry the one who is of kufw to you and do nikah with them. The Prophet peace be upon him had 11 wives will all be pleased with them. Six of them were from the Prophet’s own tribe. The Prophet. Peace be upon him. Had four daughters and he peace be upon him. Married all of them within his own tribe.

And he peace be upon him. Married Zainab and Fatima to her first cousins and he peace people upon he married Umm Kulthum and Ruqayyah to ‘Uthman Ibn Affan, and Zainab to Abu Al As Ibn Al Rabi’, her first cousin and Fatima to Ali Ibn Abi Talib. Also her first cousin may Allah be pleased with them all.

This shows marrying within your own tribe is preferred and marrying your cousins is preferred.

As soon as a muslim gets the wealth shytan uses one of his slaves to try and honey trap him like shytan honeytrapped Sulaiman not so magnificent using Roxelana. It seems to me that he wanted to fit in with the European Kings and he sought honor in something other than Islam and Allah humiliated him at the Siege of Vienna. over the years the Ottoman Empire became more French and less Islamic.

So much so that Mahmud, the second in 1826, had the most feared and the elite military corps in all of Europe, the Janissary Corps executed by his French style troops. This is how one woman, Roxelana, turned the strong Islamic Ottoman man into a semi French sick man of Europe. And today the French style Dolmabahce Palace in Istanbul testifies to this history.

Marry, a muslim woman whose father is a known Muslim, preferably from your own tribe, because she will root for you, because your growth will bring glory to her family. Just like it seems, Roxelana brought glory to her family

when Musa pbuh was done pulling water for the daughters of Shauaib.

pbuh, He made the following supplication to Allah mentioned in the Quran. My Lord, I am in need of whatever good you send my way. Allah answered his supplication. This is mentioned in the Quran meaning one of them came up to him walking with shyness. She said, Our father calls you so he may reward you for what you have watered for us.

And then Shu’aib pbuh offered Musa pbuh to work for him and to marry one of his daughters to him. So let me ask you this question. As a muslim man, do you want to marry a girl who walks modestly or immodestly?

At the time of Prophet Adam pbuh, kids were born as twins. One boy and one girl. The girl from one pregnancy was married to the guy from the other. Habeel’s sister was not very good looking, whereas Qabeel‘s sister was very good looking. Qabeel couldn’t stand the fact that his sister be wed to Habeel and insisted she should be married to him instead. To settle the dispute, Adam pbuh told them both to prepare a sacrifice in Allah’s name.

At that time, the sign of acceptance of sacrifice was that a fire would come from the sky and consume it. Habil was a herdsman and he sacrificed the best sheep he could find. Qabil was a farmer, and he offered the least useful grain Habeel’s sacrifice got accepted when it comes to giving in the way of Allah never shy away from giving the best

You will not reach the highest level of good deeds unless you spend in a laws way the thing you love and you don’t spend in his way from a thing that law knows it. We make a law to forgive us and to allow us to give the best in charity and his way and save us from jealous people.

The Prophet. Peace be upon him. said meaning. All of this world is a fleeting provision and there is no better provision in this world than a good woman. When a man marries a righteous woman, when he leaves the house, he knows she will protect her and the house.

This gives him peace and his work becomes easy for him. And by the grace of Allah, he increases in wealth. If the man marries an irreligious woman, the effect will not be the same. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said meaning four things that are a part of happiness. A good wife, a big spacious house, a comfortable mount.

And a good neighbor. O our Lord give us for us from our spouses and children. Coolness of our eyes. And make us the leaders of the righteous. Ameen.