A lot of older people think it’s unmanly. Many non-Muslim gurus say it makes you look weak, especially those impressed by pickup artists and other circus artists. And angry and inexperienced Muslims fall for it, but nothing could be farther from the truth because these people, they come from a society where a lot of them don’t really know who their father is.
For a Muslim man who’s married to a woman who is upon the Quran and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Sahaba, the companions. And she loves her husband and she knows the Hadith that a woman who fasts her Ramadan prays or five daily Salah protects her private parts and obeys her husband. She will go to Jannah, Paradise from any gate she wishes.
There is nothing wrong with her husband expressing his love for her openly because we Muslims, we do not follow the red pill community. We do not follow circus artists. We do not follow the angry Western influencers. We follow the example of Muhammad, pbuh once a Persian man, invited the prophets pbuh to a soup dinner.
The prophet pbuh asked, Is Aisha Ummul Mumineen our mother, The prophet pbuh asked is Aisha, invited. The man said no. The prophet pbuh refused until the Persian man invited her, as well once the prophet pbuh was asked who is most beloved to you? And he said, Aisha
And then he was asked who after her, and he said her father, Abubakar, al-Siddiq, and the day the prophet pbuh left us. His head was in Aisha’s lap, and he was doing the siwak chewed by Aisha. And we Muslims are here today because we have been following this for 1400 years.
This does not make us a simp. This strengthens the family unit. My dear Gen Z. Now it’s your turn to lay the brick and build a strong Muslim family. Get married as soon as you can. Stay upon Quran and Sunnah, may Allah make all of this very easy for you. Ameen.
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