Author: Usman Gondal

One of my kids was hesitating, climbing the rope ladder in the park. She thought she couldn’t do it. I have no idea who tried to put this idea into her head.

Perhaps a relative who wanted to make her co dependent. Who is she or anyone else to put a limiting belief like the kids head? It is only shytan who will try to put a belief like this in a kid’s head. Whereas Allah made the kid perfectly capable of learning and doing things by himself or by herself. This was very painful for me to hear.

Every day we’d go to the park. I’d stand beside her and tell her to climb. And she’d say, Baba, hold the ladder for me. So I held the ladder for her. She did it by herself. The next day she said, Hold the ladder for me. And I lovingly said, You can do it without me holding the ladder. All it took was 2 to 3 tries, and she climbed the ladder all by herself.

As I stood and encouraged her with a smile and positive words, I kept an eye out. Until climbing the ladder all by herself became second nature to her, which is when she graduated from the School of Baba. No school or teacher in the world can do this for a child. Only a parent can. We ask Allah to forgive us and to allow us to be good to our children and to teach them Islam and the world Ameen.

The Prophet peace be upon him, said meaning command your kids to pray salah when they are seven years of age and beat them for it when they reach ten and separate them in their beds.

How can a parent strictly command their kids to do something other than Salah, Before the age of seven?

Allah says in the Quran meaning the example of the people who spend their moneis seeking the pleasure of Allah, believing in the reward with certainty their example is that of a garden on a high ground which got ample rain and yielded fruit in double. Then, if not heavy rain, a drizzle and Allah is aware of what you do.

A garden on high ground is a good place to build a house. Your house is a representation of you people. Judge you based on your house. You with other Muslims may become pioneers and move to the outskirts of the city on major thoroughfare and build three or four houses together. This land will become very valuable in 10 to 20 years.

You may also build and set up a masjid trust there and get a house in Jannah in the process and make a place for cattle and planting fruiting trees, especially date pomegranate olive and grapes, whichever is best suited to the land and set up a place to teach and learn the Quran and join the best of Muslims because the prophet peace be upon him, said the best of you are those who teach the Quran and those who learn it.

We beg Allah to forgive us and to give us the best in this world. And the next

This lesson is mostly about women and how they may manipulate their men or other men. The wife of Aziz of Misr. She tried her best to lure Yusuf pbuh to commit adultery with her, but failed Allah says in the Quran, meaning and when he saw his shirt was cut from the back, he said, it was your trick.

And indeed your trick was great. And when she got caught, she said to her husband, who was the Aziz of Misr what to do with the one who intends bad to your family to turn Aziz of Misr against Yusuf pbuh. And this is how women of unjust character turn brother against brother. So if you ever hear something bad about a muslim brother, see who is telling you the thing.

And always verify every important thing from multiple sources. At least two reliable sources.

And the prophet peace be upon him, said meaning a woman who prays her five daily prayers fasts her month of Ramadan guards or chastity and obeys her husband will enter paradise with whichever gate she pleases. Now, let me ask you this question. My dear Muslim sisters, you have a clear cut, step by step, easy to follow and understand.

Path to paradise. What is preventing you from following it?

The Prophet. Peace be upon him said meaning for things are a part of happiness. A good wife, a big house, a good neighbor, and a comfortable mount. And today, cars are of four types sedans and performance trucks, work trucks, hatchbacks and SUV’s. And the prophet peace be upon him said the best horse is black with the white spot.

One may say the best car color is also black. You must buy a car from the most reliable brand because only a reliable car is comfortable and safe. And you must prefer to buy a truck or an SUV because they are higher up from the ground and hence closer to the horse and the camel. Safer and more prestigious.

People who plan yearly are set for the full year. They have no anxiety about their finances tomorrow, the next week or the next month. They have a full year to refill the next year’s finances. This is why these people keep growing wealthier because they have less cognitive load, which allows them to focus on building wealth.

Whereas people who do not plan yearly have their cognition overloaded with the worries of tomorrow. The first thing you must plan for yearly ios good food because the prophet peace be born, him said. No one has given something better than well-being after Eman

Now my dear Muslim brothers and sisters. Everything we do in this life, we align it according to Quran and Sunnah because we love Allah. We love Rasulullah. We are Muslims. We have accepted Islam as the source of guidance even when we spend the wealth Allah has given us. Remember, my dear Muslim brothers and sisters Allah, says in the Quran in the very beginning of the mashaf we read. Talking about the good people they spend in a Allah’s way from what Allah has given them. So whenever we spend, we make sure it is according to Quran and Sunnah this hadith will be a guiding light for you in determining how to spend your wealth.

Now listen the prophet peace be upon him set meaning give charity and a man said ya rasul Allah. When I hear the words, ya rasul Allah. Some people use this in the wrong way. There are some certain sects which we will discuss at the end of this book and the list of deviant sects and their beliefs.
Some sects consider the prophet to be omnipresent. And when they say ya rasul Allah, they are basically calling out to him, which is shirk, calling out to anyone besides Allah, is shirk. But when we listen, these words ya rasul Allah and we imagine that a companion is saying these words to the Prophet pbuh.

How beautiful would it feel like for the companion to say these words? And we wish that one day Allah allows us to use these words in the hereafter when rasul Allah sal Allahu alyhi wasallam. We are with him, ameen.

The prophets pbuh had seven children.

The prophets pbuh said meaning marry a woman who is loving and fertile. So I will be proud of your large numbers on Judgment Day. The words of prophet pbuh used are al-walud, which means the one who will have a lot of children and al-waudud. Which means a woman who is loving by nature.

The Prophet pbuh, said, meaning when the son of Adam dies, his deeds are cut off except three continuous charity, beneficial knowledge, or a virtuous child who supplicates to Allah. For him, fertility and loving behavior is related to ambient levels of estrogen. The higher the positivity in one’s environment, the lower the cortisol, the lower the cortisol means.

Higher estrogen levels in women and higher testosterone in men.